GREAT LEADERS ARE NOT BORN, THEY ARE MADE

Hello everybody!!!!

Do you know what is meaning of leader?

~Leader‘s means people that having an ability and desire to inspire and influence others.

Some people believe that leaders are born with the necessary qualities that make them successful as a leader. While others believe that leadership, like many other similar characteristics, can be learned and developed through life.
 

Leader must have an ability to influence through persuasion. This means that each leader have their own way will be able to influence people. Other than that, leaders also have a strong belief and enthusiasm in themselves and also for their organizations are doing. 

 

There are several ways you can develop your own leadership skills: 

• Work on improving your communication ability, especially your ability to listen to others
• Be willing to take risks
• Network and look for ways to expand your contacts
• Focus on working and living with integrity and respect for others
• Encourage those around you to find their own leadership qualities
• Be confident in yourself and your abilities
• Know your strengths and be ready to ask for support in areas where you are lacking
• Create a vision and share your vision to inspire others
• Think positively and commit to reaching your goals

 

My Regret

Form 3 

In History class, I stared at boy next to me. He was my best friend. I stared at his hair, fair skin and baby face, and wished he was mine. He did not notice me like that.  After class, he asked me for notes that he missed the day before and I handed it to him. He gives me a smile .I wanted to tell him, I do not want to be just friends, I love him and too shy and do not know why…Hmmmm  

Form 4

My phone rang and it was him. He was mumbling about his broken heart. He asked me to go for movies and I did not want him to be alone, so I agreed. Sat next to him, I stared at her baby face and wishing he was mine. After three hours watching the movie, he decided to walk home. He looks at me and says thanks and smile. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I do not want to be just friends, I love him but I just too shy, and I do not know why.   

Form 5

A day before dinner organizes by school, he come to me and says that his partner is sick and I decided to go with him since I do not have any partner. After everything was over, I was standing in front him .We keep looking at each other. He was handsome that night and I was mesmerized. Then he says thanks and he had the best time .At that time , I want to tell him that I want him and I want him to know that I do not want to be just friend ,I love him but I am to shy ,and I do not know why.

SPM Result

After day by day, week by week then a month where our SPM result released. I watched him very happy and keep smiling. Before I went home, he came to me and says that I am his best friends and give me teddy bear as my birthday present. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I do not want to be just friends, I love him but I am too shy, and I do not know why.

Two Years Later 

I am in wedding ceremony and that boy is getting married now. He married to other girl. After outdoor photo shot, he came to me and very glad that I came. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I do not want to be just friends, I love him but I am too shy, and I do not know why.

Funeral

After two years, I looked down at the coffin of a boy who uses to be my "best friend". His wife gives me his secondary school diary. In that diary it says that: I stared at her wishing she was mine and she do not notice it, and I know it. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I do not want to be just friends, I love her but I am too shy, and I do not know why. I Wish she will tell me that she love me too.

I wish I did….I keeps thinking about it and I cried.

                      Will you regret it, if you are in my shoes?  

Birth Order Trait....

Every child have a different character traits. Actually, birth order does not guarantee the character trait but it tends to accentuate character traits that many children already possesses. 

First-born children are more aggressive mover because they had more responsibility. Responsibility makes themselves to be matured, a good leader, has a higher IQ level which caused them often a perfectionist. Parents must ensure that their first children knows what their expectations because they are constantly trying to seek parental approval. Besides that, most of first children like to pretend to know all things and easy to obeys the rules. 

 

Then, the middle-child which are any child born in between the eldest and the youngest will demonstrate the greatest variety of character traits but they will usually be opposite of their older sibling. They will try to be unique because most of them are creative person. So, parents must help them recognize their own talents. Middle children often feel stuck in the middle and make them are not an over achiever like first children. This required parents to take more time to understand their middle children.

On the other hand, the youngest child are usually very different from their older siblings. Mostly, they are not independent person because of being more pampered than other siblings by their parents. Having an eldest sibling makes themselves do not have feel much responsibility and are more carefree. However, it is important for parents to teach about responsibility to their youngest child to avoid themselves becoming knowing of nothing.

  Last but not least, the character trait is actually come from the environment that a child is being raised. It  plays a big role in how their personality will develop. They are not purportedly born with traits that matches their birth order. It can be made up by their parents style on raising them. 

 

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Believe that you 

have the destiny,

the innate ability,

to become all you expect of life.

Believe that you

will go through 

some difficult time easily,

wondering about how things will turn out.

Believe in yourself.....

Do not put away the dreams inside you.

Be hopeful and determine to make yourself exactly what you want to be.

Nothing is beyond your reach.

Why they keep asking questions like that?

Why is she alone? 

What clothes are you wearing?

What type of car do you drive? 

Who is your family and how much money do they have?

Who are you dating? 

What club are you in?

How good you are at sports?

What genre of music do you like?

What grade did you get? 

How many people like you?

How many people call you everyday? 

How many people accept you as you are?

Other than that, have you guys thought about

Who you love and who you have hurt?

Whom you have made happy and unhappy intentionally? 

Who keeps your secrets and who betrays your trust?

What you say, maybe hurtful to someone. Would you say sorry?

How about rumors you have started? 

What will happen when the rumors spread?

How about jealousy, revenge, pain and fear in you? 

Would you like to let it spread and consume your thoughts and feelings?

The end

Do you think we should give monetary incentives to the KP2 students for better grades ?

          There are several benefits of monetary incentive that could contribute to good grades for students. This incentives can lead to high motivated students, higher achievement in studies and increasing in self esteem. 

          Firstly, monetary to the KP2 students will lead to high motivated student. Money will give additional motivation that helps them to make an extra effort to perform better grades. At certain situation, the students will see it as a win-win situation, where they can gain rewards as they get higher grades in studies. 

          Other than that, students can reach higher level achievement in studies .Motivation is required for student to perform well. Increasing in motivation and improving achievement are two benefits for using incentives that work together. For example , a student who is motivated to receive a price for the highest grades on exam is likely to perform better on the exam than he would .The student with high level motivation has a positive action to improve his achievement . He want the prize, he knows he must do well on the test and exam to get the prize. He studies hard for the test and as a result he does better on the test.

          Finally, the monetary incentives will increase the KP2 student self esteem. They know that someone still supporting them and they will do their best and get the grade that they want most. This will increase their self esteem and other positive qualities. So, if the promise of cash for good grade helps to make that more tangible, maybe it is not a bad thing.

What would you think?