Friday, February 11, 2011

Birth Order Trait....

Every child have a different character traits. Actually, birth order does not guarantee the character trait but it tends to accentuate character traits that many children already possesses. 

First-born children are more aggressive mover because they had more responsibility. Responsibility makes themselves to be matured, a good leader, has a higher IQ level which caused them often a perfectionist. Parents must ensure that their first children knows what their expectations because they are constantly trying to seek parental approval. Besides that, most of first children like to pretend to know all things and easy to obeys the rules. 






 
Then, the middle-child which are any child born in between the eldest and the youngest will demonstrate the greatest variety of character traits but they will usually be opposite of their older sibling. They will try to be unique because most of them are creative person. So, parents must help them recognize their own talents. Middle children often feel stuck in the middle and make them are not an over achiever like first children. This required parents to take more time to understand their middle children.


On the other hand, the youngest child are usually very different from their older siblings. Mostly, they are not independent person because of being more pampered than other siblings by their parents. Having an eldest sibling makes themselves do not have feel much responsibility and are more carefree. However, it is important for parents to teach about responsibility to their youngest child to avoid themselves becoming knowing of nothing.


  Last but not least, the character trait is actually come from the environment that a child is being raised. It  plays a big role in how their personality will develop. They are not purportedly born with traits that matches their birth order. It can be made up by their parents style on raising them. 
 

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